During a divorce or separation hostility and anger are common between couples and talking to an ex partner face to face can be difficult. Equally few people want the trauma and expense of a long drawn out court battle. Mediation offers a middle way to help both of you reach an agreement regarding your divorce or separation.

Mediation involves negotiating with a trained mediator to resolve issues such as finance, the division of assets and arrangements for children. The mediator is there to cast an impartial eye over both sides, ensuring that each have an equal say and exploring possible options before helping them to find a solution.

Before agreeing to mediation you will probably need to sign a document agreeing to abide by any ground rules set by the mediator and disclose any financial information if finances are to be discussed. 

The number of sessions will vary according to your case. You and your spouse set the agenda and decide which issues you would like to discuss. This could be all or part of your divorce settlement.

There are many professional bodies and voluntary organisations that offer mediation. Talk to your solicitor or local court for further details.