ABOUT ITSFINISHED.COM

We've been where you are. That's why we built this.

itsfinished.com was founded in 2002 from lived experience of heartbreak, domestic violence and the long road back to feeling whole. Since then, we’ve helped hundreds of thousands of people put the pieces back together.

We’re here for the heartbreak moments — the silence after the chaos, the tears behind closed doors, and the often painful process of rebuilding your life and sense of self.

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Our Mission

itsfinished.com exists to provide compassionate, accessible and practical support to people navigating the emotional aftermath of heartbreak, separation, divorce, bereavement and domestic abuse. Our mission is to create a safe, non-judgemental space for healing, offering guidance, resources and community support to help people rebuild their lives one step at a time.

Our Vision

We imagine a world where nobody facing the heartbreak of losing a relationship feels completely alone. Our aim is to offer gentle support and early guidance, particularly for those struggling with overwhelming thoughts and emotions. Through compassionate resources and community, we hope to create a safe space for healing, helping people rediscover connection, purpose and peace.

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Our values

Compassion

itsfinished.com supports people with understanding, empathy and kindness during heartbreak, separation, divorce and bereavement. We meet people where they are, without pressure or judgement.

Safety First

We prioritise safeguarding and emotional wellbeing, especially for people experiencing domestic abuse, trauma or suicidal thoughts. Nobody should struggle through heartbreak alone.

Acceptance

Healing after heartbreak looks different for everyone. We create a safe, supportive space where people can feel heard, accepted and understood during difficult times.

Confidentiality

Privacy and trust are important at itsfinished.com. Personal experiences, conversations and support requests are treated with care, discretion and respect.

Empowerment

itsfinished.com helps people rebuild confidence, regain emotional strength and take positive steps forward after separation, divorce, bereavement or relationship breakdown.

Community

Recovery is easier with support from others who understand heartbreak and loss. Our community encourages connection, shared experiences and hope for the future.

Tracey

Tracey Cleminson Founder · Therapist in Training · Supervised by The Walters Method

Our Founder

I've been where you are. That's why I built this.

I’m Tracey — founder of itsfinished.com and a therapist in training. I set this site up in 2002 originally to support people going through divorce, and it has grown from there into something I’m incredibly proud of.

Divorced, and since losing both of my parents,  I have been through various heartbreaks, including domestic violence. I believe that when we are at our most vulnerable, we are more likely to end up in narcissistic or abusive relationships and it takes real strength to build resilience, heal and identify the red flags that break those patterns.

I bring you this work because I hope to prevent others from going through the level of trauma I have experienced. This is built from personal experience. And when I say I understand what trauma feels like, I mean it.

Let’s rebuild our lives together. 💜

Tracey x

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