Many couples decide to separate to give themselves time and space to reflect on their relationship. For some, this separation may lead to reconciliation, while others may eventually decide to divorce.

You can apply for a legal separation on the same grounds as for divorce, i.e., that the marriage has broken down beyond repair. Unlike divorce, you do not need to wait a year before applying for a legal separation, so it can serve as an interim measure until you file for divorce.

If you are considering reconciliation or are unsure about divorce, it would be beneficial to talk to a relationship counselor. Meanwhile, it is important to address practical matters, such as who will remain in the marital home and where the children will live.

A Separation Agreement is a legally binding document that addresses financial and family arrangements while the couple is living apart. This agreement can be reached directly between the parties or through mediation and is drafted by a solicitor for both parties to sign. It is usually revised or confirmed when the couple eventually divorces.

Alternatively, a couple may choose Judicial Separation. Financial matters, assets, and arrangements regarding children can be settled through mediation or formally in court if necessary. This option may be suitable for couples who, for example, do not wish to divorce due to religious reasons.