Let’s Talk About Gaslighting
Gaslighting is a phenomenon where somebody makes you believe that you are in the wrong, even though you aren’t. In some cases it could be a one off, but in more serious cases it could mean convincing you that you are abusive, mentally ill or paranoid amongst other things, which can undermine your self confidence […]
How to spot a Narcissist.
Narcissism is a term that is often thrown around, but is misused. Not all violent and abusive men and narcissists, and not all narcissists are violent and abusive. There is, however, often an overlap between abuse and narcissism, although not always consciously on the part of the narcissist. So, want to know what narcissism looks […]
5 Red Flags
Unsurprisingly, I just got hurt. Why unsurprisingly? Because there were red flags. Hindsight is a wonderful thing, but we learn by experience, so here goes. 5 red flags you should definitely be aware of: Love bombing. This is where declarations of love come quick and fast. It might involve showering you with gifts or compliments, […]