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At itsfinished.com, we’re here for the heartbreak moments — the silence after the chaos, the tears behind closed doors, and the often painful process of putting the pieces back together. Whether you’ve faced a breakup, divorce, bereavement, or abuse, you are not alone.
This space was born from real experience. We understand because we’ve lived it and supported others going through various stages of heartbreak, divorce and bereavement. Our mission is to provide compassionate, non-judgemental support to help you find hope, healing, and strength after loss.
👉 See more about who we are and our personal stories below.
itsfinished.com exists to provide compassionate, accessible, and practical support to individuals navigating the emotional aftermath of heartbreak, separation, divorce, bereavement and domestic abuse. Our mission is to create a safe, non-judgemental space for healing, offering guidance, resources, and a supportive community to help people put the pieces back together – one step at a time.
We imagine a world where no one going through the heartbreak of losing a relationship feels alone. At itsfinished.com, we’re here to offer gentle support, early guidance, and emotional strength – especially for those who may be struggling with overwhelming thoughts or feelings. Our hope is to gently hold space for people as they begin to heal, helping them rediscover a sense of connection, purpose and peace – and to rebuild a life that feels whole again.
We meet people where they are — with empathy, care, and kindness — offering support without pressure or judgement.
Healing is easier when you're not alone. We foster a supportive, non-toxic, uplifting environment where connection can spark recovery.
We honour every stage of healing, from heartbreak to hope. We create spaces where individuals can be honest and feel heard, however messy life may feel.
We take privacy seriously. All interactions are treated with the utmost discretion and respect for personal boundaries.
Our advice and support services are grounded in ethical practice and professionalism and we seek this in our collaborative partnerships.
We prioritise good practice in safeguarding, especially for those experiencing abuse, manipulation or suicidal thoughts. No one should suffer in silence.
We help people reclaim their voice, rebuild confidence, and take small steps towards a stronger, more fulfilled future.
We believe in working together to make a real difference. By partnering with professionals and organisations who share our purpose, we create a joined-up approach to healing.
We operate transparently, honestly, and always in the best interest of the individuals we serve. We are open to feedback and learning.
itsfinished.com was originally set up in 2003 to support people going through divorce and who were having contact issues with their children.
I am divorced and since losing both of my parents, I have been through various heartbreaks, including domestic violence. I believe that when we are most vulnerable, such as following parental bereavement, we are more likely to end up in narcissistic or abusive relationships, and it takes a lot of strength to build resilience, heal and identify the red flags to break the patterns that lead to unhealthy relationships.
You can read my full story of domestic violence by subscribing here and logging in.
Alternatively, if you are an agency, press or professional working in the field of domestic abuse, please email me at press@itsfinished.com for a password.
I bring you my story because I hope to prevent others from going through the level of trauma that I have experienced. It can happen to anyone, regardless of background, race or gender, and many people have shared stories with me that have made me realise there there is a need to share and support others.
This website is built from personal experience. I am not a counsellor, but I believe that there is nothing like lived experience to support and coach others. When I say that I understand what trauma feels like, that I know what it’s like to have your heart shattered into a thousand pieces and how much strength and resilience is needed to work towards feeling, happy, healthy and whole again, I mean it!
Let’s take this journey to rebuild our lives together, and create the future we truly deserve.
Love and care,
Tracey x
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