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Breaking up is never easy but it doesn't have to be the end - is about starting over and all the help you need to embrace single life, whether you are divorced, separated or bereaved.

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If it's over then get over it!
Ending a long term relationship is one of the most stressful things a person goes through in their life, so how do you turn it into a positive step forward rather than the end of your world?

 Mend Your Broken Heart. Our top ten tips for mending a broken heart will set you on the right track for starting over. See it as a positive step forward with a chance to embrance a new found freedom.. click here for our ten steps to mending a broken heart.

Want to get your own back? Check out our top 10 get your own back tips..  more

Top Ten Get Over it Songs - get the tissues and listen to our top ten songs for crying those blues away or celebrating your new found freedom

Dating - whether bereaved or following a split, we have flirting tips, a guide to dating as a single parent, safe sex and more... members even have free membership to our online dating site

Jokes, quotes and more - read the latest here

Divorce - quick links

The Legal Process of Divorce - everything you need to know about the Decree Nisi, Decree Absolute, petitioner and respondent, how to find a divorce solicitor, ancilliary relief, mediation, coabitation rights and everything related to the legal aspects of divorce and separation.

Children and Divorce - residency (formerly know as custody) issues, Contact, what to tell the children when Mom and Dad are divorcing, Cafcass, maintaing contact with school ater divorce and more.

Divorce and Pets - what do you do when you are torn over the pets? Who gets the pet in a divorce?

Children Come First

Not sure what to tell the children when you break up or get divorced?

Facing a Cafcass interview and note sure what to expect?

Facing difficulties seeing your children ater divorce or separation?

Whatever your issues, our Family Law section can help with practical help and advice from what to tell the kids to what to expect from a cafcass interview, with a comprehensive list of links and organisations for specialist help. Click here for more

Teens - if you are breaking up with your boyfriend or girlfriend or your parents are getting divorced we can help. Know your rights, learn how to cope and ask advice from Auntie Gem, our very own agony aunt. Click here for more

Get Your Own Back

Many people leave a relationship with feelings of hurt, mistrust and anger. Such feelings in themselves are perfectly natural and the desire to seek revenge is perhaps understable. In the short term revenge can make you feel a whole lot better, however long term it is unlikely to give you any satisfaction.

Read how some people have got their own back.

Please email us with details of how you got revenge - we would love to feature your stories on our website.


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When someone special has died... simply email us a poem, few sentences or what you would like to say and any image you would like and we will post a memory for you. Click here for more

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