How to End a Relationship with Care and Respect
Ending a relationship is one of the most emotionally challenging experiences one can go through. Whether the relationship was long-term or short, the process of breaking up requires careful thought and consideration. How you choose to end a relationship can have lasting effects on both parties involved, making it essential to approach the situation with […]
Let’s Talk About Gaslighting
Gaslighting is a phenomenon where somebody makes you believe that you are in the wrong, even though you aren’t. In some cases it could be a one off, but in more serious cases it could mean convincing you that you are abusive, mentally ill or paranoid amongst other things, which can undermine your self confidence […]
How to spot a Narcissist.
Narcissism is a term that is often thrown around, but is misused. Not all violent and abusive men and narcissists, and not all narcissists are violent and abusive. There is, however, often an overlap between abuse and narcissism, although not always consciously on the part of the narcissist. So, want to know what narcissism looks […]
Once a ghoster, always a ghoster
Abuse isn’t just physical. It can come in many forms, including the silent treatment. We often think of ghosting as something somebody does when they want to end a relationship but don’t have the nerve to tell you, so they just cut you off, but some people ghost during a relationship and leave you hanging. […]
5 Red Flags
Unsurprisingly, I just got hurt. Why unsurprisingly? Because there were red flags. Hindsight is a wonderful thing, but we learn by experience, so here goes. 5 red flags you should definitely be aware of: Love bombing. This is where declarations of love come quick and fast. It might involve showering you with gifts or compliments, […]
Move On: Stop Doing This After Divorce
Are you struggling to improve your personal life after your divorce? Maybe you realize that there are still some hurdles holding you back. You are working to halt some of the behaviors that have become part of your life. Well itsfinished.com outlines some of the things you should look into. This article will outline the […]
What I learnt about being ghosted
Seven months into a relationship – yes seven months – I was ghosted. For those of you that are new to this phenonium, it is when one partner cuts all contact suddenly with no explanation. It is, unfortunately, fairly common early on in relationships as we live in an ever-increasing digital world, but thankfully rarer […]
Dating Tips for the Recently Divorced: Easing Back into the Dating Scene
Dating Tips for the Recently Divorced: Easing Back into the Dating Scene Re-entering the dating world after a divorce can feel overwhelming, especially if it’s been a while since you last dated. Whether you’re interested in casual encounters or seeking a long-term relationship, it’s important to approach dating with both optimism and caution. Here are […]
Cleaning Your Home
Coming out of a relationship might mean that you need to start looking after your home yourself, if your former partner was the one who took care of the home maintenance. Here are some tips. Avoiding the use of chemicals is ideal for people with allergies, small children or who wish to protect the environment, […]
Personal Safety
Living on your own, venturing out, and dating again after a long time can feel overwhelming. While the likelihood of encountering danger from a stranger is low, it’s still essential to take sensible precautions to ensure your safety. “There were times when I was out in the city and forgot I was alone after spending […]
Eating for One
Cooking for one can be challenging, especially when most supermarket packaging is designed for families or larger households. This often leaves you with the choice of relying on microwave dinners, which can be convenient but expensive, or resorting to less healthy options—or worse, skipping meals altogether. Ordering takeout from your local Chinese or Indian restaurant […]
Returning to Work
Whether you’ve taken time off to raise children, manage a household, or have been unemployed for a while, re-entering the workforce can feel intimidating. You might be concerned about a lack of recent qualifications, advancements in technology, or finding suitable childcare. However, many people successfully retrain and re-enter the workforce after a break. Here are […]